According to Lexico, index is an alphabetical list of names, subjects, etc., with references to the places where they occur, typically found at the end of a book.
Do you have an index to your Story, your life. Have you ever taken the time to write down what you want in life? Especially when it comes to a long term relationship (from Marriage until death). One should know what they want in a life long decision before searching. Would you buy a car without at least some research to refine what you want. What about a home. What about something as small as your next cellular phone purchase? Do you compare products, make a list of wants, must haves, and if they have that feature, great but not a show stopped.
Relationships are really similar. Picture the person you want to meet in your mind, then write that down. In great detail if looks are important. If character is what you most want, start with a few bullet points. Remember trust is a big deal for most people. Trust they would be faithful, honest, reliable, even when it is not convenient for them. If they mess up, do they come clean or is it someone else’s fault or doing? Any way you get where this is going. If you are willing to spend time on your next purchase (a phone for two to three years, home to 5 to 10 years, or that car for 3 to 5 years) maybe just maybe a life time commitment with worthy of some of your time as well.
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Complete you story with an index, so in a little time when you go to review you own story, that index at the end you created will save you time when you want to review your goals. Yes an index for your story. Remember your life story is yours, no one else can think it, create it. write it, or make it happen.
Remember what you think of (obsess over) if where you will find yourself. Going back to the car illustration above, if you bought that new red truck or begin to think you want that new red truck, you will see more red trucks on the road. There is really not more red trucks on the road, you just notice them because you are thinking about them. For the most part we condition ourselves and drive through much f life on auto pilot.
You don’t think so! If you drive, remember back when you first began diving. It was hard, the car moved unexpectedly, watching for speed signs, traffic lights, other drivers, and etc. Now if you have driven for at least a few years. You see those signs, drivers, and etc. making adjustment with ease. Stopping smoothy when required, avoiding other drivers, keeping a constant speed without thinking to much… We condition ourselves on many things just like this. May be you are bike rider. Remember learning how to keep your balance? Now riding that bile seems almost effortless.
Most driver read at least one book (drivers hand book) and took at least two tests. One for you learners and one for your drivers. If you drive anything more than a passenger car, you took more tests and read more books.
Does your new Elite Partner deserve no less? Read relationship books, Have conversations, Learn what the other person may want, likes, and so on. After you read the book, completed some practicing, you to will become better at what you want, and what THEY want. To be good together, you must both condition yourselves for the life journey.
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