Old Fashioned Approach (Values) with Modern Technology Assistance.
At EliteDating we assume that every successful long-term relationship consists of three components:
1) Psychological assessment
Psychological assessment is a process of testing that uses a combination of techniques to help arrive at some hypotheses about a person and their behavior, personality and capabilities.
Psychological compatibility – core personality traits such as social style, values, emotional temperament and beliefs, interpersonal relationship style etc.
We believe that compatibility along dimensions of personality is of great importance for long-term relationship success. Our assessment is short and to the point for guests, more extensive for VIP partners.
2) Chemistry
In human chemistry, interpersonal chemistry is a term used, in a colloquial sense, to define a type of felt or experienced “chemistry” between people in friendships, associations, or relationships.
Interpersonal attraction is the attraction between people which leads to friendships and to platonic or romantic relationships.
Interpersonal attraction, the process, is distinct from perceptions of physical attractiveness, which involves views of what is and is not considered beautiful or attractive. Interpersonal chemistry – hobbies, interests (e.g. how someone utilizes their free time: movies, sports, music), shared experiences. It is important not only to have things in common to start a conversation, but also we believe that interpersonal chemistry is what builds attraction with each other in early stages of the relationship.
3) Physical attractiveness
Physical attractiveness is the degree to which a person’s physical features are considered aesthetically pleasing or beautiful. The term often implies sexual attractiveness or desirability, but can also be distinct from either.
Physical attraction – obviously physical attraction is an important component of every relationship as well. We help our users by encouraging people to upload more photos, higher quality etc – but ultimately users will need to be the judge of physical appearance of another individual.
Match Making
A lot of work goes into building models, which ultimately predicts probability that the couple may enjoy great conversation—which hopefully will lead to a long relationship.
We encourage users to enter in their location and search for possible partners near to them. Computer algorithms, Photos, interests, occupation, and hobbies are good indicators that someone may be an ElitePartner, although the first person to person meeting is where that human experience will tell you if there’s a spark, or not.
In essence we are assisting in the first two parts—psychological compatibility and interpersonal chemistry, while leaving the third part—physical attraction to our users.
Are you Dating to Marry, or just for fun?
Dating to Marry means that I should ask myself, once I get to know someone a little better, can I see any sort of future with them? How do I know, what deep thought and planning have I done?
Do they have the necessary qualities that I know I require? Do I know what I’m looking for or am I just ‘winging’ it?
Dating for Fun; plenty of people believe casual dating is just another way of saying casual sex, but that’s not always the case. What if you are just looking for someone to go to the movies with or dinner, or hiking, or, well you get the idea. What if you’re looking for fun and it starts that way, but… . Do you keep the relationship on the fun track or take the turn to something else?
Relationships are hard if you take the other person into account. After a couple of interactions do you both feel the same way? As much as we believe society has changed, people are just people and haven’t really changed over the last few hundred years. Technology yes, people not so much. Thats why we believe in Elite Philosophy with Old Fashioned Approach.